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The other night my best friend for the last 17 years, Alma, suggested that I create instructional tips for men on what not to do or say when dating a former fat girl. Also, never ask a former fat girl, are you gonna eat all of that? ) #3 – Don’t annoy the former fat girl you’re dating by asking “Did you exercise today? #4 – Never ask a former fat girl, “Do you have to wear girdles or those Spanx-things?#5 – Don’t point to people at the mall or in restaurants and ask, “Were you ever that big?” #6 – Never tell a former fat girl, “You look good, you just need to tone up,” after she just told you that she lost over 100-pounds!Also, the former fat chick appreciates workout tips, she just doesn’t want to hear them all the time!Quite frankly, the guy acts weirded out by the ghosts of my fat girl past.
Just because you’re not getting matches doesn’t mean you’re not attractive.My first date was not until I was 23-years-old at Chilli’s. Over the years my insecurities subsided, and I have continued to date.However, there tends to be an ongoing pattern with the guys I date.In gym class, my male classmates often taunted me with “You’re jigglin’ baby! ” when my gym shorts would ride-up between my legs.Throughout middle and high school and much of college, I never had a boyfriend.